Patrick White has been a bright addition to my Twitter world for quite a while now. When I heard he was working on a new film project, I was immediately interested to find out more. What I didn’t know was that in recent years, he has been through so much that would cause many of us to retreat or affect us in ways that would change our dispositions. Patrick has never shown anything but kindness and positivity online for as long as I have known him but he felt a need to share his true story in hopes of helping others. This is what our new world of Social Media should be for, reaching out to help others with the tools we have learned by going through our own trials.
Knowing Patrick, I’m sure it will be an important project with a hint of fun, learning, and laughter. I included the video interview from his Kickstarter page because I enjoyed watching it and felt he conveys his message perfectly. As an added bonus, Patrick agreed to do a little interview with me. This was truly a delight to do because it allows me to share him with you!
Q: Tell me a little about the film you are working on “Murphy’s Law“. I read that it’s based on your own experiences. Has it helped you cope with the things that have happened?
Patrick White: Yeah, its loosely based on recent experiences in my life. Most notably losing my mother to cancer this past April. Writing and producing this film has helped me grow as a person to understand that no matter how much it feels like it’s the end of the world. Its not.
Q: Do you believe in luck? Some people think there really is no such thing. Oprah says luck is when being prepared meets opportunity. What is your take on that?
PW: A friend once said something very similar to me, that luck is when opportunity meets preparation and thats when success happens. But at the same time I believe a string of bad things happening can be the other end of the spectrum of luck. So to answer your question, yes I believe in luck.
Q: What do you do to turn yourself around when too many things seem to be going wrong?
PW: My go to response when the world is crashing down around me is to just pretend like you have your life together, and eventually you will. Not everything is going to be great in your life, bad things do happen. Be patient and work hard, good things will come.
PW: I would go back to my childhood right around my pre teen years, and tell myself to appreciate family a little more. For all of you reading the people you love in your life might not always be around, so let them know how much they mean to you.
Q: You have a Kickstarter campaign for the film. How can people get involved and help you make this film a reality?
PW: They can donate whatever amount they can or if donating just isnt in the cards right now sharing the project with friends who might appreciate it would be extremely helpful to our campaign too! We need all kinds of support for this project to be successful.
Q: What advice would you give to others who are going through similar experiences and feel like they are all alone?
PW: My advice to people going through similar experiences is to let the people who care about you take care of you for a little bit. They want to help, so let them. I felt the weight of my world on my shoulders when my mom was sick and tried to hold it together for every one and it was too much of a burden to bear. Not everything is in your control, emotions are human. Be human and let the ones who love you, love you.
Q: What is one thing you absolutely cannot live without and one thing you wish we could all live without? Feel free to give me a serious or playful answer!
PW: Oh, this is a fun one. My serious and funny answer would probably have to be cheese. Im a huge foodie and good cheese in anything is usually a big win for me. What I wish we could all live without? I love technology, but I wish we could all do with less of it. Me and my friends always make it a point to not be on our phones frequently when we are together. Everyone being so wrapped up in things going on elsewhere they can never completely just be in that moment. Kind of sad to think about really.
Q: Where can we find you and the film online?
PW: I am on twitter @PatrickWhite_ and my website www.PatrickWhiteActor.com has all my information and click the Murphy’s Law tab, it will bring you to the Kickstarter page where you can find more on the project!